How Working in Cambodian Slum at 20 Altered My Life (Max, 25) – MOTM
Welcome to the Millennials on the Move series!
This initiative consists of candid interviews of, in often cases, extremely young millennials and their inspiring stories of how they navigate travel at their age despite the challenges.
This, is Max. He went on a whirl-wind adventure, volunteering in an Camboadian slum at just 20-years-old and came back a new person.
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1) Hey Max, so happy to have you on the series! Let’s start with a quick intro, shall we?
Hey, thanks for having me! I’m Max and I’m originally from Vienna, Austria. Last week I turned 26 years old, and I’m currently travelling in the UK and typing this on a train between London and Manchester.
2.) Nice, great to meet you! So, first question. After high school, what prompted you to want to move to Cambodia? Why not straight off to college?
Since I was 16 years old I worked during my school years and used the money to travel. So going straight to college after high school had never been an appealing option for me.
So, I decided on another route. I backpacked all around Eastern Africa that time and got a taste of real travel.
I came back to Vienna after a few weeks and promptly planned another trip abroad. This time though, I wanted to stay longer. I came across an organization in Phnom Penh in need of English teachers in their slum school, so I wrote them a mail and next thing I knew I was booking a one way flight to Cambodia!
3.) Wow! That is bold! Did you have any hesitations before you went abroad, being so young and solo? And what did your parents think of it all?
The genius thing I did back then was, that I did not think too much about what could go wrong, or worry about stuff that was out of my control anyway.
Perks of being young I guess!
So many things could have easily prevented me from going abroad. Having a few essential thoughts on insurance and medical issues are important, however you should never worry too much. My parents were used to the fact that I travel often, and but of course were a bit worried, as every good parent would have been.
Having doubts is normal, but they should always be in a reasonable size—otherwise they will prevent you from going anywhere!Having doubts is normal, but they should always be in a reasonable size. Click To Tweet
4.) So you had this huge trip planned, and you obviously followed through with it all. So what about the work you were doing was so fulfilling? How long did you end up staying there, and why did you eventually leave?
Well, I had never taught before, and all of a sudden I was in charge of 20 pupils and had to prepare classes on a daily basis. My kids were between 6 and 10 years old, as they are classified according to their language skills.
It was difficult at first, I won’t lie.
Their local teachers did not speak English at all, so it was difficult to have an actual conversation with them. To be honest, it got to the point where I realized the impact I have on the kids is limited and I can’t do much more, without more support.
So I got help from the organization to improve the situation. In the end, it was worth it and it was the special bond with the kids and their eagerness to learn more with me as a teacher, that was the most positive impact. But like all good things, my time had to end at some point there and my desire to explore the region grew bigger, so eventually I set off again.
5.) Wow! Well, did you ever go back home to pursue a higher education yourself? College?
Yes. I have studied art history, African studies, and business administration. But dropped out of them all, and the end I studied tourism management.
6.) What a story! Now at 25 years old, how do you think that work experience in Cambodia ultimately who you are as a person today? Do you have any regrets, or would you do it all again?
Moving to Phnom Penh was the first grown up decision I had taken in my life, and that has absolutely shaped me.
I rented an apartment, had to pay lease, had a work placement in a slum in the outskirts of the city, and huge responsibility. My life there was so different from what I have known so far. I have spent my time with different people every weekend and traveled all around Asia.
I got hooked to a semi-nomadic lifestyle and have never wanted anything else again. The following years I worked for a couple of months and traveled the rest of the time. Then I got addicted to arriving in new countries and got the idea to travel to all the globe’s countries within 10 years. I’m now halfway there!
Looking back, I’d say the only regret is that I would have lived even more and would have enjoyed every moment even more.Looking back, I’d say the only regret is that I would have lived and enjoyed every moment even MORE. Click To Tweet
7.) In closing: what advice would you give to some other 20-something year-old who wants to do a similar work or volunteer trip, but is scared or thinks they’re too young to such a thing alone?
My advice would be, do not worry. Do not be biased. Trust your gut. And especially don’t care about what society says. They tell you to study, get a job and get in the cubicle. You can still do that–but first, travel. Always travel.
If you spend a couple of months or even years on the road, you will experience so much, which you can draw from for the rest of your life.
And just one last thing: Real life experiences matter more than material possessions.